Dufflyn is probably one of the most straight-shooting guests to be on the show. It's actually what I love about her most, she keeps it real and tells it like it is. Yet, she is still kind and caring. I'm sorry but having someone "tell it like it is" and making you feel like a terrible person does not work for me--or for Dufflyn either. She also might have the most romantic story of meeting her boyfriend that I have ever heard of in my life!
Check out her great SUPER informative Actors blog: http://www.dufflynsblog.com/